How to give Sensual Massage?
A massage is just like lovemaking, or even like love.
It’s a moment in time that binds two people in a bond that’s blissful and perfect.
When you’re experiencing a perfect massage, time could fly and yet, you’d never want those hands to move away.
You’d just want to lie there, feeling the overpowering sense of giddy abandonment taking over you completely.
A sensual massage can bring both of you together, even though only one person experiences the pleasure of the perfect pressure.
The art of the perfect massage
Have you ever given a sensual massage to your partner? How do you feel when you give a massage to your lover? And most importantly, did your partner really enjoy it?
You may not realize this, but a sensual massage is a union of two bodies experiencing the bliss felt by one.
A massage isn’t about one person doing all the work while the other partner experiences a good rub down.
When you massage your lover, you’d start to feel as good as your partner does.
How to give a good sensual massage
A massage doesn’t take long, nor does it need a lot of accessories. Once you understand what a sensual massage really needs, you’ll be able to prepare yourself and your partner for it within a few minutes, and enjoy a rejuvenating massage that’ll make both of you feel good.
You don’t need nimble fingers or a brow full of dripping sweat to apply the right pressure or give the perfect massage.
You just need to keep these 11 steps in mind to create an experience that’s reminiscent of helpless ecstasy and a feeling of complete bliss, for both of you. [Read: The art of arranging a bedroom to create a sex bedroom]
#1 Patience. Relax and calm your mind. Patience is the key to giving a good massage. Feel good about yourself and prepare your mind to selflessly please your partner without expecting anything but happiness and relaxation in return. Take a few deep breaths and avoid any distractions.
#2 Undisturbed time. If you want to give your lover a great sensual massage, give yourselves at last an hour of undisturbed times with no phone calls, email, or visitors. A sensual massage is a union of two minds and to experience it completely, you need to think of nothing but the way your hands feel against your partner’s body.
#3 Get the setting right. Your partner can experience the pleasure of a good massage only when they feel relaxed and uninhibited. Dim the lights if your partner feels awkward about lying in the nude under bright light, or use a soft cloth to cover their butt when they lie down in the nude on their tummy. Dress yourself up in soft clothing or take your clothes off. [Read: How to look really good naked using 15 real life tips]
#4 Things you need. There are no necessities to a good massage and just your bare hands should suffice. But if you want to heighten the pleasurable sensation, keep a bottle of body lotion *non-sticky and water based* nearby. Want to go one step further? Light fragrant incense or use massage oils, and play some soothing ambience music in low volume. But just remember to avoid using oils that have an overpowering fragrance.
#5 The warm up to the massage. Ask your partner to lie on their tummy on the bed. Sit down by their side *you can also sit on their butt or thighs if they’re comfortable with your body weight*. Place your hands on your partner’s upper back and move your hands all over their back. Pour a liberal amount of lotion or oil on their back and start moving your hands around their back slowly. [Read: How to turn yourself on with your senses]
#6 The energy exchange. The energy exchange is the most important part of a good sensual massage. As you move your hands gently over your partner’s back, close your eyes and feel your hands move against your lover’s body.